How to Bring a Woman to Orgasm By Fingering Her

Bringing a woman to orgasm by fingering her is a lot easier than a lot of guys make it.

I’m serious.

While most men are discussing things like the G spot, the exact amount of pressure to use, the number of thrusts per minute their fingers should be doing, and all sorts of obscure and pointless details, the rest of us are out giving our women orgasms using our fingers - in heaps of different positions, using different strokes, techniques, and with all different kinds of women.

So what are we doing that you’re not?

Rule One: Forget the Tricks

Don’t make things complicated.

Women are MEANT to orgasm. Their bodies are designed for it. Sex is SUPPOSED to be pleasurable, otherwise, how would we have reproduced back before we knew, intellectually, what we were doing?

Women are sexual creatures. I have never met a guy who will ever be in a state of near-constant arousal. I have been with many women who are exactly like that.

At the heart of things, giving a woman an orgasm with your fingers is very simple. You just thrust in and out, hit the right spots, avoid a few common mistakes, and you’ll reach that “Big O” every time.

You don’t have to do figure eights. You don’t have to measure the thrusts per minute you’re using. There’s no “perfect” hand position, or number of fingers, or anything like that.

It’s sex. Not rocket science. Drop the complicated rituals and just use your common sense - get her in the mood, build sexual tension and sexual arousal, start slow, build up, pay attention to what she likes, and don’t change what’s working!

Whilst that may seem like a long list, it’s not. It’s just common sense. Use it and you’re already ahead of 99% of the other guys out there.

Rule Two: Keep It Clean

The easiest way to ruin a woman’s orgasm, especially when you’re fingering her, is to make her feel physically uncomfortable.

You don’t even want to know how many times I’ve heard horror stories from women I know about how their boyfriends didn’t wash their hands before fingering them and then the next day they wound up with some nasty rash or infection.

Before you start fingering your woman, please, wash your hands with soap. Make sure your fingernails are clean of dirt. And speaking of fingernails, please, PLEASE cut your nails. If a woman gets a cut on the inside of her vagina from a fingernail not only is it exceptionally painful and uncomfortable, but it will take a long time to heal and probably get infected.

So, please, keep it clean, okay?

Rule Three: Don’t Get Tense

Anyone who is involved in a professional where intense physical dexterity is required - such as piano players - will tell you that the minute they get tense, they not only lose all their ability and start to tire out about ten times as fast (literally), but they also increase the likelihood that they will develop a sprained muscle or repetitive strain injury or something.

Fingering a girl isn’t exactly strenuous exercise, but it does require endurance for your hand muscles. Thankfully, you’ve used them all your life, so it’s not like you have to lift weights with them or anything. However, if you tense up, they WILL tire out, and then you’ll have a sore arm and an unsatisfied woman in your room.

Neither are good things.

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